Whats the use of making a promise when u cant keep them....this is the question that is itching my mind since morning...People say,come to me I'll solve your problems...they will very nicely provoke u to tell ur problems and then will land up with giving no solutions saying that they are working hard but cant help in that situation much...when u know u cant do much...why promise and keep people in darkness??? and poor people they make a fool of themselves by expressing their views,wishes,dreams etc.etc.....ridiculous....
My advice would be...least expect from others..you are the best person to get a solution for ur own problems. Listen to advices..but take ur decisions...tomorrow u'll not repent for ur decisions...as u are the owner of them.Dont wait till someone comes and helps...start helping urself...be INDEPENDENT and self sufficient.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Monday, June 29, 2009
waiting...
In every stage of life somewhere or other we will have to wait...just like a hungry person waits for food,poor waits to become rich etc etc.I am waiting for my results.24hrs are not sufficient in a day...and that too only 10hrs for work is very very less and demands are more..i sometimes feel i should have a set up of all instruments at home ...so that i can try my wierd mind whenever an idea clicks...but we have our own limitations...we need to wait for the right moment.everything has its incubation period...inspite of knowing this fact we humans tend to wait innumerable amounts of time ...But "i hate waiting"... :)
Sunday, June 28, 2009
railways...
when i was in 9th std. we had to cross railway tracks to go to school.There used to be no gate when trains come and go...me,my big school bag and my bicycle.I narrowly missed twice death while crossing tracks.Sometimes when my friends accompanied me..we used to park our bikes and wait for the train to come...just before the train came, we used to put a 5np or 10np coin on the tracks and allow the train to go...it was great fun to see the coin in absolute flat metal sheet...
i feel i have some connection with railway tracks..hahah..the home where i'm staying now is near to the railway tracks and after 10.30pm...we can clearly hear the horn of trains...things follow like hutch puppy or shadows....My life reminds me of the silent movie"pushpak" hindi version acted by Kamal haasan... :)
i feel i have some connection with railway tracks..hahah..the home where i'm staying now is near to the railway tracks and after 10.30pm...we can clearly hear the horn of trains...things follow like hutch puppy or shadows....My life reminds me of the silent movie"pushpak" hindi version acted by Kamal haasan... :)
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Curry leaves...
Most of us are aware about what curry leaves are....it is a flavouring leaf and is typically used in every south indian dishes.But the irony is...every one likes its flavour but no one eats it.It is almost always picked and left aside in the plate,though they enjoy its flavour.The reason behind me writing about it here is...i just remembered a coleague of mine who had a tuff time in professional life...the phrase used was"I am used like a curry leaf,after the work is done I'm left aside".
I liked the comparision made...and it remains a fact that we really enjoy its flavour...but its position is in dustbins most of the times.
Most of the times..we humans will face such situations in professional life...ofcourse , sometimes in personal life too...but prominently in work areas.
Very recently,a person was shifted from one dept. to another..when asked he said i am no more required there.This statement made me recollect the above mentioned quote.
After all,CURRY LEAVES are CURRY LEAVES which leaves flavour...if consumed,its good for health as they are rich in vitamin A....if left aside they still do their job of giving contentment by providing flavour....so relish it either way :)
I liked the comparision made...and it remains a fact that we really enjoy its flavour...but its position is in dustbins most of the times.
Most of the times..we humans will face such situations in professional life...ofcourse , sometimes in personal life too...but prominently in work areas.
Very recently,a person was shifted from one dept. to another..when asked he said i am no more required there.This statement made me recollect the above mentioned quote.
After all,CURRY LEAVES are CURRY LEAVES which leaves flavour...if consumed,its good for health as they are rich in vitamin A....if left aside they still do their job of giving contentment by providing flavour....so relish it either way :)
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC
A person should not be too honest.Straight trees are cut first and Honest people are screwed first
Even if a snake is not poisonous,it should pretend to be venomous
The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody. ! It will destroy you."
There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no Friendship without self-interests.This is a bitter truth
"Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead
"As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it
Once you start a working on something,don't be afraid of failure and don't abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest
"The fragrance of flowers spreadsonly in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction
A man is great by deeds, not by birth."Chanakya quotes
Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years.For the next five years, scold them.By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends."
"Books are as useful to a stupid personas a mirror is useful to a blind person
Education is the best friend.An educated person is respected everywhere.Education beats the beauty and the youth."
Even if a snake is not poisonous,it should pretend to be venomous
The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody. ! It will destroy you."
There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no Friendship without self-interests.This is a bitter truth
"Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead
"As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it
Once you start a working on something,don't be afraid of failure and don't abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest
"The fragrance of flowers spreadsonly in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction
A man is great by deeds, not by birth."Chanakya quotes
Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years.For the next five years, scold them.By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends."
"Books are as useful to a stupid personas a mirror is useful to a blind person
Education is the best friend.An educated person is respected everywhere.Education beats the beauty and the youth."
favoritism....
Favoritism in the workplace might result in this person being promoted faster than others unfairly, being paid more to do the same job as others, being given more leeway to come and go during the day as they please, that sort of thing.
The end result is that they appear to be treated better than others and for no valid reason.
In each case, work favoritism appears to correlate less on their abilities and more because they know the right person or people.
Work favoritism can occur in pretty much any office environment large or small. How you react to the favoritism really depends on how blatant it is, if it's proveable and whether or not it's illegal. Your company's willingness to tolerate such behavior is also key.
Before you consider going public with a complaint about favoritism think about the possible consequences.
This is a small article i read in blackle.com on favoritism.... subconciously something is going in my mind...and made me work on those lines....
The end result is that they appear to be treated better than others and for no valid reason.
In each case, work favoritism appears to correlate less on their abilities and more because they know the right person or people.
Work favoritism can occur in pretty much any office environment large or small. How you react to the favoritism really depends on how blatant it is, if it's proveable and whether or not it's illegal. Your company's willingness to tolerate such behavior is also key.
Before you consider going public with a complaint about favoritism think about the possible consequences.
This is a small article i read in blackle.com on favoritism.... subconciously something is going in my mind...and made me work on those lines....
Monday, June 8, 2009
Human thinking....
I was going home after office and suddenly something fell in one of my eyes...i stopped on one side and tried to find what fell in my eye which has created so much of burning ....i couldnt find anything..but it was burning horribly....as a sympathy my second eye also started weeping/watering....if one eye is in trouble,the other eye also expressed its grief and showed that it is there in thin and thick of life.....what bothered me was why we humans are not like that...we hardly find a sibbling feeling sad when his/her other sis/brother are in trouble.They belong to same family..they share same blood...still no sympathy for eachother...if we expand it to society...we share the same society...but how far we are with it...what are we doing by being in the same brotherhood...I feel sorry for my/our own behaviours and resposibities we share towards our family or society...
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Blackle.com
Hey all out in this world...please start using "blackel.com" instead of google.com.It is energy saver...i'm trying to do it....u can also attempt.. :)
Manu's Theory Of Social Living.....
A few days back a good friend of mine was discussing about Manu's theoryof social living and told that it was he who described how a woman should live and a man should live in this society.As a coincidence the topic was raised again at home referring to the crime rate in India.It is increased as the woman today is no more following the rules and regulations that were laid upon her.This was told by a lady....what she said was...the women nowadays are no more under the protective sheet of men..they are going out for studies and jobs...and thats the reason crime rate has raised...But my understanding to the problem is entirely different...The women have become more bold nowadays as compared to the past...they are now bold enough to fight for their rights instead of silently taking the beatings of this society.
In olden days too..i guess...there should be some crime happening upon women..but because of the shy nature and with a fear of what would the society think....they used to keep silence.There is a good saying in telugu which means "whether it is thorn on leaf or leaf on the thorn...it is the leaf that gets damaged" and the women were compared to that of status of leaf.Now,the story is different...the SHE has become more stronger than HE.No inhibitions and no hinderances.they are streching their limits to achieve their dreams .Ofcource..there are still few women strictly following the rules the society had laid upon this sweet species of beautiful creation of GOD.I wish those women too..to see light soon.
I am proud of todays generation of women.
In olden days too..i guess...there should be some crime happening upon women..but because of the shy nature and with a fear of what would the society think....they used to keep silence.There is a good saying in telugu which means "whether it is thorn on leaf or leaf on the thorn...it is the leaf that gets damaged" and the women were compared to that of status of leaf.Now,the story is different...the SHE has become more stronger than HE.No inhibitions and no hinderances.they are streching their limits to achieve their dreams .Ofcource..there are still few women strictly following the rules the society had laid upon this sweet species of beautiful creation of GOD.I wish those women too..to see light soon.
I am proud of todays generation of women.
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