Tuesday, June 30, 2009

promises...

Whats the use of making a promise when u cant keep them....this is the question that is itching my mind since morning...People say,come to me I'll solve your problems...they will very nicely provoke u to tell ur problems and then will land up with giving no solutions saying that they are working hard but cant help in that situation much...when u know u cant do much...why promise and keep people in darkness??? and poor people they make a fool of themselves by expressing their views,wishes,dreams etc.etc.....ridiculous....

My advice would be...least expect from others..you are the best person to get a solution for ur own problems. Listen to advices..but take ur decisions...tomorrow u'll not repent for ur decisions...as u are the owner of them.Dont wait till someone comes and helps...start helping urself...be INDEPENDENT and self sufficient.

Monday, June 29, 2009

waiting...

In every stage of life somewhere or other we will have to wait...just like a hungry person waits for food,poor waits to become rich etc etc.I am waiting for my results.24hrs are not sufficient in a day...and that too only 10hrs for work is very very less and demands are more..i sometimes feel i should have a set up of all instruments at home ...so that i can try my wierd mind whenever an idea clicks...but we have our own limitations...we need to wait for the right moment.everything has its incubation period...inspite of knowing this fact we humans tend to wait innumerable amounts of time ...But "i hate waiting"... :)

Sunday, June 28, 2009

railways...

when i was in 9th std. we had to cross railway tracks to go to school.There used to be no gate when trains come and go...me,my big school bag and my bicycle.I narrowly missed twice death while crossing tracks.Sometimes when my friends accompanied me..we used to park our bikes and wait for the train to come...just before the train came, we used to put a 5np or 10np coin on the tracks and allow the train to go...it was great fun to see the coin in absolute flat metal sheet...
i feel i have some connection with railway tracks..hahah..the home where i'm staying now is near to the railway tracks and after 10.30pm...we can clearly hear the horn of trains...things follow like hutch puppy or shadows....My life reminds me of the silent movie"pushpak" hindi version acted by Kamal haasan... :)

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Curry leaves...

Most of us are aware about what curry leaves are....it is a flavouring leaf and is typically used in every south indian dishes.But the irony is...every one likes its flavour but no one eats it.It is almost always picked and left aside in the plate,though they enjoy its flavour.The reason behind me writing about it here is...i just remembered a coleague of mine who had a tuff time in professional life...the phrase used was"I am used like a curry leaf,after the work is done I'm left aside".
I liked the comparision made...and it remains a fact that we really enjoy its flavour...but its position is in dustbins most of the times.
Most of the times..we humans will face such situations in professional life...ofcourse , sometimes in personal life too...but prominently in work areas.
Very recently,a person was shifted from one dept. to another..when asked he said i am no more required there.This statement made me recollect the above mentioned quote.
After all,CURRY LEAVES are CURRY LEAVES which leaves flavour...if consumed,its good for health as they are rich in vitamin A....if left aside they still do their job of giving contentment by providing flavour....so relish it either way :)

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Chanakya quotes (Indian politician, strategist and writer, 350 BC

A person should not be too honest.Straight trees are cut first and Honest people are screwed first

Even if a snake is not poisonous,it should pretend to be venomous

The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody. ! It will destroy you."

There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no Friendship without self-interests.This is a bitter truth

"Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead

"As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it

Once you start a working on something,don't be afraid of failure and don't abandon it. People who work sincerely are the happiest

"The fragrance of flowers spreadsonly in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction

A man is great by deeds, not by birth."Chanakya quotes

Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years.For the next five years, scold them.By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend. Your grown up children are your best friends."

"Books are as useful to a stupid personas a mirror is useful to a blind person

Education is the best friend.An educated person is respected everywhere.Education beats the beauty and the youth."

favoritism....

Favoritism in the workplace might result in this person being promoted faster than others unfairly, being paid more to do the same job as others, being given more leeway to come and go during the day as they please, that sort of thing.
The end result is that they appear to be treated better than others and for no valid reason.
In each case, work favoritism appears to correlate less on their abilities and more because they know the right person or people.
Work favoritism can occur in pretty much any office environment large or small. How you react to the favoritism really depends on how blatant it is, if it's proveable and whether or not it's illegal. Your company's willingness to tolerate such behavior is also key.
Before you consider going public with a complaint about favoritism think about the possible consequences.

This is a small article i read in blackle.com on favoritism.... subconciously something is going in my mind...and made me work on those lines....

Monday, June 8, 2009

Human thinking....

I was going home after office and suddenly something fell in one of my eyes...i stopped on one side and tried to find what fell in my eye which has created so much of burning ....i couldnt find anything..but it was burning horribly....as a sympathy my second eye also started weeping/watering....if one eye is in trouble,the other eye also expressed its grief and showed that it is there in thin and thick of life.....what bothered me was why we humans are not like that...we hardly find a sibbling feeling sad when his/her other sis/brother are in trouble.They belong to same family..they share same blood...still no sympathy for eachother...if we expand it to society...we share the same society...but how far we are with it...what are we doing by being in the same brotherhood...I feel sorry for my/our own behaviours and resposibities we share towards our family or society...

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Blackle.com


Hey all out in this world...please start using "blackel.com" instead of google.com.It is energy saver...i'm trying to do it....u can also attempt.. :)

Manu's Theory Of Social Living.....

A few days back a good friend of mine was discussing about Manu's theoryof social living and told that it was he who described how a woman should live and a man should live in this society.As a coincidence the topic was raised again at home referring to the crime rate in India.It is increased as the woman today is no more following the rules and regulations that were laid upon her.This was told by a lady....what she said was...the women nowadays are no more under the protective sheet of men..they are going out for studies and jobs...and thats the reason crime rate has raised...But my understanding to the problem is entirely different...The women have become more bold nowadays as compared to the past...they are now bold enough to fight for their rights instead of silently taking the beatings of this society.
In olden days too..i guess...there should be some crime happening upon women..but because of the shy nature and with a fear of what would the society think....they used to keep silence.There is a good saying in telugu which means "whether it is thorn on leaf or leaf on the thorn...it is the leaf that gets damaged" and the women were compared to that of status of leaf.Now,the story is different...the SHE has become more stronger than HE.No inhibitions and no hinderances.they are streching their limits to achieve their dreams .Ofcource..there are still few women strictly following the rules the society had laid upon this sweet species of beautiful creation of GOD.I wish those women too..to see light soon.
I am proud of todays generation of women.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Magic 8 ball

If u trust it is true...else just time pass...go ahead and shoot your questions... :)Here is ur link...

http://www.psychicsroom.com/Magic_8-Ball.html

What is Numerology?

There are many ways to predict the future. One of them is Numerology ? the science about numbers and their influence on life. Numerology has a long tradition. People have always acknowledged the importance of numbers and researched how they affect their actions in their everyday lives and determine their destinies. Numbers have a magical meaning.By using numerology calculation and your date of birth it is possible to determine what kind of personality you are and where it will lead you in your future life. Numerology doesn't give you direct answers, but it can help you understand yourself better. It can reveal your strengths and weaknesses, what to avoid and what to focus on. Numerology can help you live a more successful life. To find out your personal number add all digits in your date of birth and reduce to single digit...eg. 12-12-2002 is 1+2+1+2+2+0+0+2=10=1+0=1..as per numerology it is Number 1.
Now do your calculations and enjoy...
Number 1 ? individualism and leadership
People born under the influence of number 1 are egocentric, independent and dynamic. They desire to be successful and famous. Number 1 represents power and is symbolized by the Sun, which constitutes the centre of our planetary system. People under the influence of number 1 are very creative, self-sufficient and know what they want. They were born to be leaders.
Number 2 ? diplomacy and modesty
People born under the influence of number 2 are empathic and emotional. They have a good understanding of human nature, but are disadvantaged by their own emotional vulnerability. Number 2 represents change and is symbolized by the Moon. People under the influence of this number are moody and unstable. They don?t achieve fame because they prefer harmony and peace. Emotions and emotionality are their biggest restraints. They are kind and discreet and usually rely on their intuition.
Number 3 ? activity and fight
People born under the influence of number 3 are looking for independence and freedom. They are very talented and handy. Number 3 represents tree dimensions and is symbolized by the planet Mars. People under the influence of this number are ravenous and hedonistic and love to have fun always and everywhere. They crave for popularity and don?t handle criticism very well. It is typical for them to let their work unfinished and jump into something else.
Number 4 ? stability and strong will
People born under the influence of number 4 are handy and reliable. They are very conservative and prefer regular, organized activities. Number 4 is symbolized by the planet Mercury. People under the influence of number 4 never give up. They are very patient and organized. They don?t like changes and have tendency to see life in black and white.
Number 5 ? free mind and instability
People born under the influence of number 5 are restless and unstable. They have difficulties to make a decision. They don?t like rules and commitments, but they also are very fortunate. Number 5 represents the human body ? feet, hands and head. Number 5 is symbolized by the planet Jupiter - the planet of fortune. People under influence of number 5 are impatient and like adventures. They live for the present and are not interested in the past.
Number 6 ? harmony and sense for art
People born under the influence of number 6 are peaceful, idealistic and unselfish. Based on these attributes, they have a good chance to succeed if they choose the right profession. Number 6 symbolizes six colors in the rainbow that mirror the sense for beauty and art. Number 6 is symbolized by the planet Venus. People under the influence of number 6 are optimistic with a good chance to be successful in arts. They need love and recognition to improve their self confidence.
Number 7 - fatalism and mystery
People born under the influence of number 7 are mysterious. They have wide imagination and a lot of inspiration. They are seeking out unusual situations and are always in search for new knowledge. Number 7 is symbolized by the planet Saturn. It represents brilliancy and wisdom. People under influence of this number are able to overcome very difficult life situations without complaining. They have healing and magical powers.
Number 8 - success and change
People born under the influence of number 8 are usually successful. They have the ability to find good opportunities to accumulate wealth. Number 8 is symbolized by the planet Uranus. Number 8 represents success, but it can also symbolize infinity. People under the influence of this number have good organization skills and are very practical. Unfortunately, they often lack inspiration and miss their chance for success.
Number 9 ? higher dimension and magnetic power
People born under the influence of number 9 are intelligent, enjoyable, gifted and unique. They trust their brains more than their hearts. Number 9 is symbolized by the planet Neptune which represents not only perfection, but can also mean geniality in positive or negative sense. People under the influence of number 9 achieve fame and popularity without big effort. They are ambitious and have good regeneration ability.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Professionalism

Howmany so ever disputes u have in life...u should be able to manage your day to day routine with same smile irrespective of how stressed ur relation with him/her is...perhaps this is what i call professionalism....I some times wonder why this artificiality...but reality is u have to look at each others face daily irrespective of what u feel...so be professional...

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

poodle....



Cutest boy....he is snoopy...loveliest of all among its species..

Sunday, March 29, 2009

superstions...

This is a small narration of reality in life...this is about a lady who works as a servant maid...
She dint do schooling.Now she should be in her early 50's..good looking,sleek body and very sincere when it comes to work.She travels distances to earn and meet with the expectations of her livelyhood.So self esteemed that she dosent want to depend upon her son for money matters as she feels she would be depriving the luxuries of her daughter- in- law .
She got married when she was 16yrs.Because of lack of education..she sounds very innocent.When she got married some local jyotish(fortune teller) told her that if she delivers a baby she would die.But one fine morning she came to know that she is going to be a mother.From that day her fear for life doubled.Months passed on so fast that the day of delivery came very near...that too when she was out of her hometown to visit her sister in law who was expecting a baby in couple of days...but who knows that this lady would deliver so soon..a prematured one.There was nobody to help her and her husband got an old lady(almost blind) to help in delivering.The place they visited was a god forsaken place where there were no trained nurses...and her relatives went to the hospitals where the other lady was admitted.
When the baby was born,the old lady who helped in delivery told that she cant see properly and hence asked this maid to cut the cord of her baby...she being a kid herself has cut the cord without leavin space for a kmot...the baby died within hours due to ignorance of bothe the females...the output is death of an infant.
Days passed..she grew upto 18yrs..a little matured with more superstions dissolved in her blood...she was pregnant once again for the second time....but the fear of dying also doubled...this time the impact was so harsh on her mind that she physically beacme weak and ill.She has borne a baby boy for second time too...but the boy had to die of starvinfg after 9 days as she herself was weak and sick with the words of tantrik echoing in her life....
Some more years passed and she gave birth to another boy...but the tragedy was her husband became mad and ran away from home.The boy was brought up by her mother in law and herself.With lot of struggling she brought him up,educated him till tenth and now he works in a multiplex theater as security in parking lot .
She was rejected by all her relatives as they were afraid of she being a burden to them if they show sympathy to her...she dint give up in life.Now she is better off that others...now all her relatives want her...but she never depended on any of them for help.
She is living happily with her son and daughter in law.But there are many issues related to her which i may narrate soon....

Misusing your concern or goodness...

How do you feel when your own so called friends Take you for granted and uses you for getting their things done???
I cant accept this sort of behaviour in people...but the truth is I've seen such type of people in my life too.....
My advice is dont give weightage to those who are not worth your company.....

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Newtons Law - new version

NEWTON IN ROMANTIC MOOD..............
U niversal L aw O f L ove:
" Love Can Neither Be Created Nor Be Destroyed; Only It Can Transfer >From One Girlfriend To Another Girlfriend With Some Loss Of Money "


F irst L aw O f L ove:
" A Boy In Love With A Girl, Continue To Be In Love With Her And A Girl In Love With A Boy, Continue To Be In Love With Him, Until Or Unless Any External Agent(Brother Or Father Of The Gal) Comes Into Play And Break The Legs Of The Boy. "


S econd L aw O f L ove:
" The Rate Of Change Of Intensity Of Love Of A Girl Towards A Boy Is Directly Proportional To The Instantaneous Bank Balance Of The Boy And The Direction Of This Love Is Same To As Increment Or Decrement Of The Bank Balance. "


T hird L aw O f L ove:
" The Force Applied While Proposing A Girl By A Boy Is Equal And Opposite To The Force Applied By The Girl While Slapping."

Months and personality....

I am a November born baby...What baby are you?



JANUARY BABY-------------------- Pretty/handsome.
Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time torecover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth.Stubborn.

FEBRUARY BABY --------Abstract thoughts.
Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone.Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble.. Honestand loyal. Determined to reach goals. Lovesfreedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it.Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friendsbut rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn.Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside.. Superstitious and ludicrous.Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.

MARCH BABY -------------------- Attractive personality.
Sexy. Affectionate Shy and Reserved. Secretive.. Naturally honest, generousand sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity.Sensitive to others. Great kisser.. Easily angered.Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Observant and assesses others.

APRIL BABY ------------------- Suave and compromising.
Funny and humorous. Stubborn.. Very talkative. Calm and cool. Kind andsympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal. Doeswork well with others. Very confident. Sensitive.Positive attitude.. Thinking generous. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Able to cheer everyone up and/ormake them laugh.. Able to motivate oneself andothers. Understanding. Fun to be around.Outgoing. Hyper. Bubbly personality. Secretive. Boy/girl crazy. Loves sports, music, leisure and traveling. Systematic. Hot but has brains.

MAY BABY ----------------- Stubborn and hard-hearted.
Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered.Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm standpoint.Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain).. Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding.Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing.. LovesLiterature and the Arts. Loves traveling. Dislikes being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High spirited.

JUNE BABY ---------You've got the best personality and are an absolute pleasure to be around.
You love to make new friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirtand more than likely have an a very attractivepartner. A wicked hottie. It is also more than likelythat you have a massive record collection. You have a great choice in films, and may one day Become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck,you've got the looks for it!!!

JULY BABY -------------- Fun to be with.
Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed.Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easilyconsoled. Honest. Concerned about people's feelings. Tactful. Friendly.. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Easily hurt. Witty and sparkly.Spazzy at times.Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets.Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense ofsympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges peoplethrough observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be with friends Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressiveunless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurtbut takes long to recover.

AUGUST BABY ---------------Outgoing personality.
Takes risks. Feeds on attention. No self-control.. Kind hearted. Selfconfident. Loud and boisterous. VERY revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Has an "everything's peachy" attitude. Likes talking and singing. Loves music. Daydreamer. Easily distracted. Hatesnot being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. Hates studying. In need of "that someone".Longs for freedom. Rebellious when withheld orrestricted. Lives by "no pain no gain." Caring.Always a suspect. Playful. Mysterious. "Charming" or "beautiful" to everyone. Stubborn. Curious.Independent. Strong willed. A fighter.

SEPTEMBER BABY --------------- Active and dynamic.
Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself.Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic.Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems.Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys to make love. Emotional.Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivatesoneself and others Loves to travel and explore.Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.

OCTOBER BABY ------------------- Loves to chat.
Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Inner and physicalbeauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angryoften. Treats friends importantly. Brave andfearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to control emotions. UnpredictableExtremely smart, but definitely the hottest ANDsexiest of them all

NOVMBER BABY -------------------- Trustworthy and loyal.
Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun.Sexy and mysterious. Everyone is drawn towardsyour inner and outer beauty and independentpersonality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent.. Can hold their own. Stands out in acrowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.

DECEMBER BABY --------------- This straight-up means yo u are the most good-looking person possible... better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous. Patriotic.. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions.Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand.. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced bykindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots ofideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someonealways on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer.Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person. Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves music.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Gyaaaaaan mantra....

http://refdesk.com/ a very nice site to read a new word,event that has taken place on the same day in history,thought for the day,.....and many....i love to watch the astronomy picture of the day and read the thought for the day....go to this site and u'll be enlightened with lot of gyan... :)

Saturday, March 7, 2009

clock of nines-

Interesting it is...is'nt it???

Accident..without my involvement !!!

At last....lying at home with a damaged leg after a beutiful thrilling accident .
Moral of the story was "you need not be wrong to meet with accidents, they are possible even due to others mistakes".
Similarly, in life most of the times even without your involvement manythings will be taking place....only solution is you need to be prepared to manage any unexpected changes or situations...
Staying at home without any work is damn boring.... :)